We all see life through the “grid” of our perceptions. We have to allow the Holy Spirit to change that “grid” so that we can learn to perceive life as He does. With that change we can establish new boundaries in our relationships. These boundaries are built upon the goal of furthering the purposes of God in our own lives and in the lives of everyone we are in relationship with. We must also learn to clearly communication our expectations and make sure that others are doing the same with us. These principles will help to keep relationships in any community of faith healthy and flourishing.